Adeline kasey
FacesAbout Me
I am in San Diego , California. Single. Artsy, intelligent, fun, outgoing, open, loving. a big heart and brain. I am most def bi. I think: “only bi people understand bi people”
What Being Bi Means to Me
It means loving whomever I want. I am non-gender specific when it comes to love.
If the World Knew About Bisexuals
We are a legitimate sexuality. It isn’t just two parties, just like the government, you CAN vote for more than two. LOL
My Path to Bisexual Identity
Self realization and an open loving stage of my life. I had always been open to bisexuality, but the impetus is when my first girlfriend expressed interest in me. 🙂
The Toughest Thing About Being Bi
Being denied existence or people telling me I am gay or ‘just a straight girl’ or dismissing my legitimacy. People making my preference petty or laughable. This is also a form of denying someone else a legitimate sexual identity. That is interesting that some gay/lesbian people especially don’t see that incredible hypocrisy! Its hurtful, hateful, and intolerant. I feel unwelcome in the lesbian/gay community and like a ‘sex toy’ in the straight community/ when I date straight men. I prefer to date bisexual people because we understand each other and when I date men, it is almost exclusively bi men, because I don’t hear the most annoying phrase in the world “I always wanted to be in a threesome with two women.”rnLOL you bi chicks know what I am saying !!
The Best Thing About Being Bi
Loving whomever I want and experiencing the beauty of different bodies, as and well as souls. The sexes are all different, as all people. The experience is fulfilling and wonderous. I get to express love with a wonderful woman, maybe soft, and small hands (like mine), sisters in our experience as a woman, womanly love. I get to express love with a man, bigger, broad, facial hair, big hands, and quirks of the male gender (lol)rnI love so many different things, it is great not to be repressed by anyone else’s opinions of what I may or may not do, whom I may or may not love. Its the living expression of my own soul. I am made whole by it by being 100% true to who I am. 🙂
How People Reacted When I Came Out
They were excited (sexually; which was awkward bec one was my brother- whut?). Women friends often say “Just don’t try and kiss me” (Don’t flatter yourself) lol. But generally everyone is very accepting, since I choose cool as people to hang with 🙂