Confessions of a Bisexual

Confessions of a Bisexual: An Interactive Memoir for baby gays (2021) is a reflective memoir by Charmeé Taylor. It explores the complexities of coming to terms with bisexuality while dealing with issues of race, religion, and societal expectations. Published by Party Trick Press, the book combines personal narratives with interactive journal prompts, creating an intimate and engaging reading experience for those navigating their own sexual identities.

Charmee Taylor is a writer, actor, and content creator who uses her platform to amplify the voices of the bi community. She runs the social media page @bi_astrology which combines her passions for astrology and exploring her bi experiences. Her content dives into relationships, her coming-out journey, and bi representation in TV and film, placing bisexuality in the spotlight.

Confessions of a Bisexual covers Charmeé’s journey of self-discovery, beginning with her experiences growing up in a small Christian town. She describes the impact of purity culture and the internalized shame she carried, particularly as a black bi woman, and how these pressures delayed her coming out until later in life. The memoir goes on to dive into the author’s struggles with acceptance — from both her family and the LGBT community — and how these experiences shaped her understanding of herself and her sexuality. She reflects on the societal misconceptions surrounding bisexuality, including the pressure to “prove” queerness through relationships or sexual experiences and the pervasive biphobia that exists within and outside the LGBT community.

The book presents important reflections in a clear and accessible way that resonates with queer readers. Alongside the narrative, you can find drawings of the key moments and reflections of the story. This unique approach helps readers get to know Charmeé better — her thoughts, experiences, and personality.

The book’s unique interactive approach includes “Homework” sections throughout the memoir, inviting readers to engage in their own self-reflection. This feature transforms the book into a shared space for readers to process their emotions and experiences alongside Charmeé’s writing. It also comes with a journal, allowing readers to work through the prompts as they read. As Charmeé states in her introduction, “This journal is ours. You co-authored a book — congratulations!”

Each chapter explores a part of Charmeé’s coming-out journey and the lessons she learned along the way. Following these narratives, the “Homework” sections guide readers in reflecting on their own experiences, encouraging introspection and self-discovery. These exercises prompt readers to confront internalized biases, examine their feelings about labels and identity, and consider their personal path toward self-acceptance.

The book is dedicated to the “baby gays” term Charmeé uses to describe a person exploring their queer identity. Charmeé’s interactive storytelling and vulnerability make Confessions of a Bisexual a relatable and affirming resource for bi readers and those questioning their sexuality. Her narrative emphasizes that bisexuality is valid regardless of relationship history, external perceptions, or self-expression.

“If you created the definition of bisexual for you, then you will always inherently be bi enough.”

Since its publication, Confessions of a Bisexual has contributed to the ongoing conversation about bi visibility and acceptance. Taylor’s honest portrayal of her journey resonates with readers seeking validation and representation, offering a sense of solidarity and empowerment to those navigating similar paths.