Nicole Poulin

I am a life long Vermonter. I am married to a great man who I have been with since my teen and have 3 children. I work in a police department as a clerk. I enjoy being outside but never seem to get out enough.

Finally a place where I belong. I am attracted to both males and females.

For young girls and guys I would like them to know that it is an option and there is nothing wrong with you.

I have always been attracted to both men and women but never really thought about being sexual with a woman. I guess I feel no one ever told me it was an option when I was young. I recently accepted that I am attracted to women too and I have had a few intimate relationships with a couple women and I felt like a light bulb went off. I realized at that moment that I was bisexual and I’m so much happier.

Stereotyping. The years of being confused about what I was because society doesn’t treat bisexuality as real.

Knowing I can love and be attracted to both sexes.

Only a few people know. I told my husband. He is fine with the idea of me being but he doesn’t know I have been with women. Not sure how he would feel if he knew that. Two of my guy friends where very supportive and the one close girlfriend I told was ok with it too. There are people I am afraid to tell because of there reactions.